|
Trans-Generational Healing
with Family Constellations
Medical
Arts Building, 715 Lake St. Ste.800, Oak Park, IL 60301 Sunday, October
30, 2011 Saturday, November 19,
2011
Time: 10:00AM
- 4:00PM Cost: $110/day
The Foundations
of Shamanic Work
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Medical Arts Building, 715 Lake St. Ste 800, Oak Park, IL 60301
Time: 10AM - 4PM Cost: $100
Call 708-837-4335
or e-mail danuta@healerspirit.com to register. Family System
Constellations Many of our issues are carry-overs from the previous generations; outdated garments that don't fit
us and yet we are compelled to wear them. Wouldn't you like to have these issues resolved, so that you can live your own life,
free of the fateful links the past? This workshop is an opportunity to do just that. If you live too far away, or are uncomfortable
with group work, feel free to call me and schedule an individual constellation over the phone or in my Oak Park office. .
Healing with Family Constellations mini-workshop at Infinity Foundation Skokie, IL
January 21, 2011 7:30pm -9pm Free of charge
For information go to: infinityfoundation.org
.
Family Constellations mini-workshop during the Shamanism weekend at Crow's Nest
Dowagiac, Michigan Octobber
3, 2010 . Moving with the Spirit Mind
- Family System Constellations Holistic
Resolutions Our ancestors are our behavioral
and emotional genetics, we are linked to them and to their fate. The unresolved issues and traumas of those that came before
us live within us and feel like our own, and we blindly repeat negative patterns. Until we heal these life-limiting systemic
influences we cannot really live our own destiny. Moving with the Spirit-Mind is the advanced approach to Family Constellation work that helps resolve the
familial issues by opening a field where the system can find a new balance. The representatives
are moved by a holotropic force that effortlessly manifests a solution to the tensions and entanglements in the person's family. As the unconscious entanglements with others in our family
system are resolved we more clearly experience the love of those who came before us and we come to fully receive from and
find our true place in our lineage. About
the facilitator: Danuta Jirik, Ph.D. is a holistic/shamanic healer. As a systemic facilitator, she is certified by Hellinger
Sciencia and by Hellinger Institute of Western PA. She blends her shamanic training with the constellation work in a unique
and powerful way, holding a safe space in partnership with the compassionate helping spirits.
"Danuta is astonishing, keen, sees beneath
things,very alert and thorough and protective. She works her own way and within shamanic principles. It is true that a lot
of stuff can get stirred up which for me is the value of having shamanic protection, intention, and strong spirit guides to
find the best route for ‘what wants to happen now’. Like any field, the practitioner, the facilitator, the person
not the practice, matters." - Barnaby Ruhe, Ph.D. Note:
Not everyone gets to have their own constellation during the workshop, but everyone will experience some shifting. Just observing
or participating in another's constellation are opportunities for profound new understanding and can move one's soul
enough to start a process of the healing change. For the most part, the issues that are played out are universal and affect
everyone present. How it works: In
the workshop, the person having her constellation states the issue and chooses other workshop participants to represent her
and the members of her family system. The representatives are placed in the room in a spacial relationship to one another,
a reflection of the client's inner image of the system (hence the name "constellation"). While occupying the position
of a particular member of the system they are able to quite accurately report on the feelings of the people they represent.
They feel, for example, pulled towards others or repelled by them, thus revealing the hidden dynamics and tensions within
the system that relate to the issue in question. Working with this constellation involves helping the initial image to shift
in the direction of resolution and results in leaving the client with a new image of his family system and his place in it.
The soul forces can now flow through this new, balanced inner image and create an improved experience that reflects its harmony. Many
of our issues are carry-overs from the previous generations; outdated garments that don't fit us and yet we are compelled
to wear them. Wouldn't you like to have these issues resolved, so that you can live your own life, free of the fateful influences
of the past?
This workshop is an opportunity to do just that. If you live too far away, or are uncomfortable with
group work, feel free to call me and schedule an individual constellation over the phone or in my Oak Park office.
Previous events - comments from participants:
|
FINDING PEACE - Spiritual Retreat Location:
GilChrist Center, Three Rivers, MI November 13-15, 2009 Comments: "Filled with peacefulness. Located in an extraordinary land filled with
positive and sacred energy. I feel a new
and profound awakening to the land and to my ancestors, an amazing gratitude for what they meant in my life. Danuta is a soft, well educated teacher, whose vision and depth
of the inner self and the knowledge of all she has been given, makes her a delightful person to welcome into one's life. I
love the workshop, the cabins, the paths; the cooperation in bringing and sharing the food was superb! Yes, I would love to
take another seminar with Danuta." -A. Monterosso
"I
feel this was the right timing and the right experience for where I'm on my spiritual journey. It was confirmation that I
am on the right path and your leadership aided in that." - Bill Kadlec
"Dear Danuta, thank you for a wonderful and enchanting retreat here at Gilchrist. It has filled my spirit with love connections
to continue my life journey with the assurance that 'Everything will be okay wherever life takes me'" - V. Velasquez
"Walking the Labyrinth in the middle of November was amazing. Wonderful location,
very serene, very helpful staff. Would do it again at a moment's notice. Leaving with a much greater sense of self and connection
with parents. Thanks." A. Pearce
"The activities were simple enough- teh Labyrinth, the dreamcatchers and building shrines (for the ancestors) - yet they
were deep reaching. The location and facilities were as remarkable as the 50F warm weather. Thank you for teaching me how
to find what I thought I did not have access to. Peace, Blessings and Love, Donna"
"Loved the serene setting and accomodations. We liked the mix of activities- the meditation followed by hiking around
the beautiful grounds. Loved walking the Labyrinth. We loved Danuta's insights and pauses to let things settle inside. We
liked the pace of it - having time for reflection. We especially enjoyed the family meditation and drums going into it. We
love your gentle guidance that lets us find our own pace and is so non-judgmental. We feel enriched for having come here.
Thanks! Love, Becky and Lynn" . . . HEALING RELATIONSHIPS - THE FAMILY CONSTELLATION APPROACH
When we turn to therapy or self-help to heal/have a relationship, we are usually looking
for a way to "fix" our problem. Common solutions might entail improving communication skills or changing some specific
behaviors. When you step into the the work of Bert Hellinger, you are entering the realm of uncommon solutions. Hellinger’s
approach - family constellations and the underlying observations from which they take shape - taps into the deepest dynamics
of a relationship. People begin to see just how unseen forces, including non-present family members and those of past generations,
and the choices that were made long ago, affect their current connections with others at many different levels. . A constellation is a multidimensional process that
typically moves through two stages. In the first, hidden-yet compelling-influences on the family are revealed. In the second
phase, healing movements and statements are discovered-and then tested within the constellation. The "soul-level adjustment"
that takes place, whether great or small, expands the partners’ options in creating solution. The new insights into the ways we
can support love- and the ways that love can support us- change us at a deep level and open up new possibilities for our relationships
to manifest harmony and true love. (text
from "Supporting Love. How Love Works in Couple Relationships", ed. by Johannes Neuhauser)
.COMMENTS on the Family Constellations
Work:
"If you have never done Family Constellation work, it is a powerful healing method. It
deals with healing the family dynamics, including patterns from generations back, and can create tremendous transformation.
I have experienced this myself! I highly recommend this workshop, and I recommend Danuta as a teacher/leader." - Joan Forrest Mage "The workshop was wonderful for me--it's still sinking
in! I've tried not to think about it too much because then I would over-analyze it! I know for sure that watching some of
the other constellations helped me have much more compassion for my father and the challenges he faced with me. (.....)
I think you're a wonderful healer and would like to work with you again!" - J.L., Chicago "Dear Danuta, since we met last I feel I have grown in many positive ways. The constellations and
bioenergy you did for me have deeply altered the way I perceive life. I feel liberated and like I am going through a lot of
spiritual growth spurt. I want to thank you again for helping me understand my place both within and without my family.
I also send you my love." - E. Koosed, NYC .
"Danuta, I wanted to thank you for the class. It was deeply moving. I did as you suggested and let it all settle into
me. I've had a good side effect: I noticed the day after when I was at the health club that I stood up from my seat without
using my hands. I'd been unable to do that for about a year and a half. It feels quite miraculous! My heart felt thanks. You
are gifted at what you do (...) I feel I am on the right path with you." ' R. Marquardt, Chicago . SHAMANIC FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS in Manhattan: The unresolved problems of our ancestors become our problems and the problems of our children. The
unconscious family patterns, rooted in family history, determine how we think of ourselves, how we choose to live, how we
relate to others and how much happiness we allow ourselves. They may manifest as failed relationships, addictions, emotional
pain, illness, lack of success or depression. The Systemic Constellation Work allows
us to bring to light and resolve the destructive family legacy and reconnect with deepest inner resources, restoring the healthy
flow of love and strength. We can then be free to follow our own soul's destiny.
As you participate in your own or someone
else's constellation, you will experience deep movements of the spirit-mind that bring together what has been separated, include
what has been excluded, and restore wholeness. These movements arise from the "knowing
field" and are guided by divine love. You will learn to listen to and trust and move with the inner promptings of the
great soul, and be in service of healing for each other and for the ancestors and for the world. I hope you'll join me in
this spiritual adventure. - Danuta Location: New York West Village, 55 Bethune St., corner of Washington St. Comments from the Manhattan workshop:
"I've
brought the solution from the constellation home with me. I certainly feel as if I'm traveling light, bringing to my parents
a brightness rather than the baggage of my illness. I was relieved to see neither tears nor worry in their eyes for the first
time in a while. I'm letting things simply happen without analyzing as you said, I know changes take place and time without
even knowing. That is what I honored most about your circle constellation, a respect for time and patience. As well as a balance
of spoken words and silence, one that was filled with so much energy. You let things happen without forcing them and it was
a powerful experience for all of us. The group dynamic allowed me some breathing room, and expansion of my family constellation.
I thank you for this experience and I wish you the best in spreading it to others,
Sincerely, M."
"Hi Danuta, Thanks for the great experience! Certainly, something happened that day and keeps changing. I just want to
embrace the "unknown", trying to be open and let the universe do the rest. You are a kind an warm guide. Blessings
to you!" S. "I was visiting
my friend in NYC when she brought me to attend Danuta's Shamanic Constellation workshop. I was nervous and skeptical before
the workshop byt the healing that happened for me towards my mother was 100% real and life changing. Danuta
is very loving, intuitive, guided by the spirit and has divine guides helping her. There is nothing to be scared of. I highly
recommend that everybody should attend her workshop and come with a humble heart and open mind." M. "I am amazed at how influential
and overwhelming and beautiful the family constellations workshop was. I am feeling better now - I had a hard time post-constellations
for a week or so. - I wasn't expecting such an experience but I am glad I did it. To dig through one's past in order to change
the present is a powerful experience (...) I am grateful that I was in company of such
loving giving people while doing such hard personal work, and also to have participated in constellations of others. You are a loving, trusting
guide, and I thank you for that." J.
"Danuta is astonishing, keen, sees beneath things. very alert and thourough and protective. She works her own way and
within shamanic principles. It is true that a lot of stuff can get stirred up. which for me is the value of having shamanic
protection intention and strong spirit guides to find the best route for "what wants to happen now". like any field,
the practitiner, the facilitator, the person not the practice, matters." Barnaby Ruhe, Ph.D. .. . .... THE SHAMANIC JOURNEYING SHAMANS are known as the technicians of the sacred, able to move freely between the everyday
world and the non-ordinary reality. The ancient methodology for moving into an altered state and accessing the inner worlds
in order to gain wisdom and healing through connecting with compassionate spiritual beings is very natural and can be
easily learned. There, in the sacred inner worlds, you will get to meet your Totem Animal, a helpful spirit in the shape of
an animal, that is your personal spirit guide and your guardian and friend. There, the lanscape of the soul is laid out
for exploration; there, the intuitive, the dynamic and the creative side of our brain is put to good use. In this one-day workshop you will learn how to enter into an altered state while listening to monotonous drumming,
to travel into the dream-like spirit world and meet your helping spirits or power animals. You will learn your personal journeying
style and find and connect with your own spirit helpers. You will have an opportunity to journey for answers to your burning
questions and to gain healing insight into the issues of your life. We will have time to drum together, to share, ask questions, and
learn how to apply these spiritual skills in ordinary life. .Please dress comfortably
and bring a journal, a blanket, bandana to cover your eyes for the journey meditation, and a sack lunch. Bring a flat drum or a rattle if you have one. . About the instructor: Danuta Jirik, Ph.D. has worked as a spiritual healer since 1994. She experienced the
shamanic awakening around the year 2000. Since then, she has studied with Michael Harner and Alicia Gates (Advanced
Shamanism and Shamanic Healing 2-week intensive with Foundation for Shamanic Studies), with Myron Eshowsky (Foundation for
Shamanic Studies and Pathways for Peace) and Larry Kessler (Hawaiian Shamanism), and Tom Cowan (Celtic Shamanism). She has
a shamanic and energy healing practice in Oak Park. She has facilitated many shamanic journeys and healings for her clients,
and has taught shamanic journeying and healing in a number of workshops in the Chicago and New York areas.
In 2007, Danuta
taught several classes on shamanic journeying at Columbia College, Chicago. Here's what
the students had to say about their experience:
|
"A few things really stood out from the
shamanic journeys. One was that it is very peaceful to clear your mind of everyday stresses and everything you encountered
in the day. Finding your power animal and experiencing a journey that takes you out of this world is a great feeling." "Wow...
that was the most emotional time I've ever had in class. It was an experience unlike anything else before. In those several
hours I felt connected and so close to everyone else it was unbelievable. The emotion, the positive energy, all of that was
so strong, there was just a certain aura in the air that made me feel like everything would be all right..." "I was a flying horse with wings!!! I could not name another class ever in the past (and
it's not likely for the future either) where I got a chance to fly a horse! The shamanic journey was an amazing experience
from the very first moment till the very end." "I really liked the drumming. It's wonderful to get so engaged and lost,
so effortlessly. It was like I automatically went to a heartspace." "The class was definitely one of the most spiritual and captivating
experiences in my life. I found myself thinking and dreaming about my power animal well after the class session was over....(..)
During the ritual, when the climax of all of our drums beating as one, I felt very warm inside. I was totally aware of my
own energy (...). I have always been aware of the power within to free yourself and transcend into something that you are
totally happy with. Life is one big pursuit of happiness. However, I never really understood the spiritual aspect and how
significant it is. This class has shown me the way." "The experience with Danuta and our Shamanic Journey was really incredible.
I haven't been able to connect with my inner self on such a level before with guided meditation. I'm not sure if it was the
drumming or the collective consciousness of the classroom, but it was like dreaming while being awake (or perhaps I was just
"awakening). Either way I really enjoyed the experience and I think I got a lot from it." "The most valuable
lessons I have obtained from the shamanic journeys include the power of togetherness and accepting help. Through our power
animals we discover aspects of ourselves we may need to work on. Along with our animal we can resolve our problems as well
as our weaknesses. We can turn to our power animal for help and guidance too. Having our class come together as one was
very powerful and created an atmosphere in the room that was full of a very powerful energy." "When Danuta called
us to come back to this reality, my bird just soared down towards the earth and dropped me off. I could hear the drumming
coming back from a far away distance, getting closer and closer. My power animal nodded his head to say goodby and he flew
away, I knew I would see him again so it was not a sad goodbye. When I came to, I was awake and vibrant. I felt completely
refreshed."
"I really appreciated the journey process(...) I felt it was somehting I would like to contuinue working on. I feel that
the power animal is a guide and he/she will help you throughout your life if you are lacking focus. Having a power animal
reminds me of the core self. I feel like the power animal is the deepest part of our core self. The power animal is also a
witness. It knows what goes on even if we do not recognize that it is present. It is our all-knowing being. I feel that
the power animal is what I must strive to acknowledge. I want to know my power animal more so therefore I can know myself
more."
|